I have not written in awhile. It has been awhile since I have written.
My Papa died at 1AM something this morning (September 28th, 2009), the exact time I already can not remember. He was the last of my grandparents. Well, the last of the grandparents I have known in my life. The last of my true grandparents. I need to write a memorial to him by tomorrow morning.
Here is what I think it will say,
I remember growing up with my Papa. He grew tropical fruits in his backyard, played golf, sewed upholstery for chairs he built, baked, read books, wrote, grew orchids, fixed and built anything and everything. These were among a million of his talents.
He would take me with him once he was retired, to fix up mostly older widows’ homes who needed some help with this or that. He was a good person that way. I myself have always had a keen interest in fixing things and I was lucky enough to have a Papa who knew how to fix everything. I mean what were the chances? He taught me so much.
He could do everything and was fun to be around. He was also kind, intelligent, strong, dashing and an honorable gentleman. He loved me and really believed in me. This gave me strength and confidence. Growing up around someone so extraordinary made me much less ordinary. This is something I have been blessed with in regards to the people I have been closest with, starting with my family. He is a large part of what has made me who I am today.
I miss him so much already. It is hard when people you share so many of your memories with pass. I just try to remember that I was blessed to have had the time I did with him, then think about the good times.
The End.
-Cara
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September 30, 2009 at 5:10 pm
wendy
Cara,
I’m so sorry to hear about your Papa. I am glad that you had each other. I know that you will miss him. My thoughts are with you and your family.
Wendy
October 5, 2009 at 8:49 am
marbiesblog
Cara,
I”m very very sorry for your loss. Your Papa is exactly the kind of person who made America great. In your own words, he helped people wherever he could, took responsibility for himself and his family, worked hard, and was genuinely a good person.
He did it on his own, without any ACORN or government money and he made a difference in his part of the world. This is the kind of person I see all over America – the kind of people I know. My parents and grandparents are the same kind of people. Everyone I know is like your Papa. That is the American Way.
He will be missed. Somone else needs to pick up his mantle and carry on in his footsteps the same way. Your Papa had good strong values, which can’t be replaced.
I think you got your strong desire to work to help others from him. Be sure to look around you for those millions of people who are like your Papa and give them credit, too.
I’m really sorry for your loss.